Menopause and Sexuality

In the years around menopause, you may experience changes in your sex life. Some women say they enjoy sex more. Other women find that they think about sex less often or don’t enjoy it as much. Low hormone levels after menopause cause vaginal tissues to be thinner or drier. 

Menopause may cause changes in your sex life, or you may not notice any changes at all.

Here are some possible changes: 

– Lower hormone levels can make your vaginal tissue drier and thinner. This condition, called vaginal atrophy, can make sex uncomfortable or painful. – Lower hormones may lower your sex drive. It may take you longer to get aroused. 

– Night sweats can disturb your sleep and make you tired. 

– Emotional changes can make you feel stressed or irritable. 

Being less interested in sex as you get older is not a medical condition that requires treatment. But if changes in your sexual health bother you, you can talk to one of our doctors.

Menopause and sexuality

You can do many different things in order to improve your sexual health during perimenopause and after menopause:

Be active. Physical activity can boost your energy levels, lift your mood, and improve your body image. All of these can help increase your interest in sex.

Don’t smoke. Cigarette smoking can reduce blood flow to the vagina and lower the effects of estrogen. This can make it more difficult to get aroused.

Avoid drugs and alcohol. They can slow down how your body responds.

Have sex more often. If you choose to have sex, it can increase blood flow to your vagina and help keep tissues healthy. 

Allow time to become aroused during sex. Moisture from being aroused protects tissues and makes sex more comfortable. 

Practice pelvic floor exercises. These can increase blood flow to the vagina and strengthen the muscles involved in orgasm. Learn more about pelvic floor exercises. 

Avoid products that irritate your vagina. Bubble baths and strong soaps might cause irritation. See your doctor or nurse if you have vaginal itching or irritation as it may be a sign of infection. 

Talk to one of our doctors about products to increase your sex drive if you are bothered by a low level of interest in sex. Some women try products like pills or creams with the male hormone testosterone or similar products. The Food and Drug Administration (FDA) has not approved these products for treating low female sex drive. But, the FDA has approved flibanserin, a medicine to treat low sexual desire. If you take flibanserin, you cannot drink alcohol because of its risks for serious low blood pressure problems and loss of consciousness. Flibanserin can increase the number of times you have a satisfying sexual experience by once a month or once every two months. Talk to your doctor about the benefits and other risks of taking any medicine.


Menopause and sexuality

Talking with your partner about your concerns can strengthen your relationship. Getting older and chronic health problems like heart disease or diabetes can affect your sexual health and how you feel about sex. 

Some possible topics to discuss include: 

– What feels good and what doesn’t 

– Times that you may feel more relaxed 

– Which positions are more comfortable 

– Whether you need more time to get aroused than before 

– Concerns you have about the way your appearance may be changing – Ways to enjoy physical connection other than vaginal intercourse, such as oral sex or massage 

You may want to also consider meeting with a therapist or sex counselor for individual or couples therapy if changes in your sex life bother you. 

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